◊ Frequent See is the Key to Living Your Bless ◊
The Age of Pisces [love others as yourself] is giving way to the Aquarian Age, thus the paradigm is shifting to:
“Love Others as They Love to be Loved”
This new focus is on understanding others’ needs and giving them what they want and can receive. We can’t assume that what works for us will work for others.
Also, loving others as yourself may often fall short, especially if you don’t love yourself very much. In that case, you may not have a lot to give.
Observing the world we can see that the Piscean way is being replaced because it is losing energy. Many groups misinterpreted the message by assuming they knew what was best for all. We can see how missionaries with good intentions “invaded” societies to give them a way of life “for their own good.” That model was arguably based on a parent to child dynamic which assumes inherent control(even if positive in intention).
The message of compassion is shifting to a co-evolution, an equality through brotherhood, wherein no parental type of authority is at play, and peoples’ needs can be satisfied in synergy. This begins with each individual raising their life force in love and service for themselves and the planet.
“What we focus on expands, people become what they dwell upon…” You’ve heard these idioms and many others referring to the power of focus and intention. It’s all about frequency and you know that to change your frequency is to change your experience of life. The way you view the world, your life, and your self is created by what you spend time thinking about.
Like the activity of practicing an instrument or sport, first comes focus(seeing), followed by action, and repeating. The revisiting of the process or “frequent see,” sets up a near autonomic response after awhile. The performance of the act becomes second nature and you begin to flow without struggle. The result of frequent-see becomes apparent in the outcome of your experience.
What you frequent-see you come to be. And how you talk to yourself, your self talk, is the critical component in that perception. In a future post we will visit the power of self talk.
What are you frequent-seeing, today?
Challenge Reality
Let’s have a Great 2008. This year is not just another year, not by a long shot. Creative dynamism is in the air as our planet embarks on a brand new 9 years long adventure. The last time we experienced this energy was in 1999.
This is a time for new beginnings, a time to take action on new ideas and plant the seeds for a future harvest. In addition to the energy for personal change and a new focus, it also is a time for partnership with others to bring about powerful synergy in the world.
Have you noticed the desire to really “know” is in the air, that there is a shift taking place to find truth beyond personal belief? It will be interesting to see how many notions about reality will be challenged this year, and at the same time, let’s be ready for new ways to define reality for ourselves.
No, this is not just another year. The many changes and shifts that have been occurring “off the radar” are now ready to burst forth in our lives. Hang on to your hat, this is to be one unique ride!
In the beginning, there was one. Universally we will see just what that “one” brings us.
Godspeed.
Joying the Planet
On a Toronto street a young woman takes a fall with her bicycle. Days later, she returns to the spot of her accident with a message. Outfitted with masking tape, she posts these words on a newspaper box:
To Larissa, Gus(?), nurse with ice cream cone, man with cellphone, woman from La Hacienda with wet towels.
” THANK YOU “
for your most generous care and kindness when I fell off my bike on Tues. Aug. 14th. I am fine & my stitches are healing.
“YOU GIVE ME FAITH IN HUMANITY “
Susanna
Nurturing a Free Spirit
You can create a brightness of spirit when you begin seeing your world from “Energy Eyes.” When you start observing people, situations, and experiences of your life from an energy standpoint, many unknowns become defined and new perspectives come into view. The flow of life becomes more real when you utilize the:
BrightMe Vision
* Mistakes are opportunities for learning and growth, so we enjoy making them.
* Laughter is the elixir of the gods, so we encourage playfulness and joy.
* Partnerships are the basis for success, so we enjoy learning from them.
* Clarity results from enlarging facts and shrinking agendas, so we meditate and evaluate.
* Control stifles learning, so we allow others to be who they are and find their own way.
* Rigidity = Death, so we inspire flexibility.
* Beliefs are a dime a dozen, so we seek to know through experiences.
* Choice strengthens all, so we share our ideas to be more resourceful.
The more we understand our personal energy, the more we can give and receive to complete the circle. We begin attract to ourselves those whose mission is to share in the joy, like The Bless You Project
.
THE number one factor in life is
How You FLOW YOUR PERSONAL ENERGY.
Celebrating Your Ability to See
You know when you’re walking along deep in thought and you viscerally notice a neon sign as you pass by? And, as you continue walking, your mind begins bugging you about that sign. So you think, was it about mattresses or bread ?
Then you think, if it were a bed company the word ‘bed’ would have been plural. And if it were a bakery…
You know you don’t want to go back and check, so you’re left with the sign in your mind, then decide to dismiss it and move on…
But, wait. Could this be another kind of sign? If you can recall what you were thinking when you first observed the sign, would it surprise you if there was a connection to your life?
The universe has various ways of speaking to us. It is virtually throwing messages at us 24/7, constantly mingling its energies with ours, waiting for us to pay attention.
So, are you sleepy, hungry, or are you being summoned for a higher purpose? The answer may appear in a store window…
THE VALUE OF REFUSAL
Would you jump in the lake because everyone else is?
Do you need to fit in so desperately that you would give up your Self? At what point does the snake become the charmer and the charmer become the snake?
At the onset of the 21st century we find ourselves in a world where there is tremendous pressure to conform, to go along, to be part of the team. Despite social rules, we may be taking this too far. People from many walks of life are muttering about being pushed around by group think, that individual ideas are not being heard over the din of what ‘they’ want. Yet, these same people are going along to get along and are giving up on themselves.
This is not an argument opposing groups, rather a case for the sanctity of each group member. What differentiates us from our affiliations? Our unique qualities and capabilities, our sense of integrity (self-value), our ability to choose, and our personal boundaries. These necessary attributes of an energetic fully functioning person are increasingly being diluted for what the group says we are to be. Read more …
PERSONAL BOUNDARY PROCESS
Stages of Development
Boundaries may be likened to fences,
not necessarily walls.
How we develop and integrate them reflects our personal value.
1
Boundary WHAT?
No Boundary= CONTROL
Others control me and
… I CONTROL!
While watching the 6 o’clock news you will often see stories of people engaged at the level of Boundary What? They operate in a no boundary state where everything and everyone is fair game, a survival of the fittest. Outcomes of these situations often involve physical and verbal violence. You can know that those who attempt to control others are often out of control themselves. Once they accept that, ground themselves, and take charge of their energy, they are more ready to graduate to Boundary HOW…
2
Boundary HOW!
Establish Boundary= DEFEND
I am controlled less,
… I DEFEND
In self protection, we show others we will maintain our safety when our boundaries are violated. This may involve physical preparation, as well as, verbal means of creating a safe space for ourselves. We may find trusting ourselves and others to be a challenge, but trust is necessary if we are to graduate to Boundary NOW… Read more …
Winning Energy Inventory
How’s your energy level?
It is said if we don’t have our health, we don’t have anything. What is health, but having the energy we need to get things done and enjoy life? Since all of life is continually trying to stay ahead of the depletion game, our #1 responsibility becomes maintaining our personal energy.
We need to take charge of our life force. We know that enjoyment of good health, caring relationships, and pleasurable pursuits are impossible without a vitality that supports us. It is the basis for all we do.
Let’s take a look at successful relationships. A crucial factor is the energy levels of the people involved. Opposites may attract, but any partnership with one person having a vastly different energy level can be very draining. Asking a turtle to be a rabbit and vice versa, can make the race a tough one to win.
The importance of energy naturally holds true in business. When we observe success in the marketplace, we know it depends on strategic promotion and delivery of a quality product. And, to sustain that success it is necessary to maintain and enhance the energy of both the sellers, and buyers. Read more …
You are the Equation
Peace
Global Math
Freedom + Love = Joy
Control + Fear = Destruction
Ego + Ignorance = Arrogance
Talking + Talking = Confusion
Talking - Listening = Alone
Talking + Listening = Together
Action + Joy = Zest
Global Math
Peace
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You are a Transmitter
You cannot not broadcast
your frequency to the world,
24/7.
Here are a few frequencies on your dial:
- Joy
- Anger
- Depression
- Happiness
- Envy
- Peace
- Love
What station are you tuned to?
What signals are you sending?
Would you like to know?
WHAT IS GROWTH?
Growth is proverbially one of the more important goals of various education and training programs. Consequently many people talk about growth and whether or not a given activity or exercise promoted growth.
Outcomes of the growth process can be viewed as:
Increasing Freedom and Independence: Any experience that increases your energy and ability to function on your own, to make your own decisions, and to take responsibility for your actions, is growth producing. It takes you away from arbitrary social norms and from external ’shoulds.’ It moves you toward assessment of a situation, recognition of your own needs and the needs of others, clarity and sincerity in communication, and a more accurate perception of others. Any exercise or training which induces dependency is not growth producing.
Read more …
Please enjoy an excerpt* below from my Ebook,
“The Mushroom Memos: A Call to Awaken”
“Default”
Are you living your life by default?
Who’s
In Charge of
Your
Brain?
Is your persistence in existence getting you anywhere? Many of us have been conditioned to live a life of take it as it comes; told that to go too far away from the tribe is arrogant, self serving, and not ‘our kind.’
You can break free from such a default lifestyle by learning to focus, choosing the thoughts you want, and putting your energy where YOU want to go. By gaining your own stride, you can proceed with zest toward your dreams.
* to purchase and have all of the Memos in one place, please go to the Ebook homepage
Limits of Rational Thinking
A common notion proposes that reason is the key to understanding everything. Indeed, it is a linear approach to problem solving. However, there is a level above reason that many never consider. That is in the realm of the metaphysical.
As time and events seem to be speeding up exponentially, our brains are overloaded and severely taxed to keep up. We will soon see, that those who rely exclusively on rational thought will be left by the wayside. Their thought processes will not be able to keep up in a world of seeming chaos.
The way out: Read more …
8 Essential Qualities of a Stellar Employee
Since a third of your life is spent making a living, hopefully your time is well spent. How do you stack up to the needs of the today’s successful organization? Read more …
Please enjoy an excerpt* below from my Ebook,
“The Mushroom Memos: A Call to Awaken”
“Affiliations”
Who’s
In Charge of
Your
Brain?
- Have you ever checked your group connections to see from what values and principles they operate?
- Could you be unknowingly involved with a group that restricts the freedoms of others, supports violence, or suppresses truth?
- Is your energy, money, or time being used for activities you would disapprove of, if you knew?
Let’s take a moment to check it out… today.
* to purchase and have all of the Memos in one place, please go to the Ebook homepage
Seeing in a New Way
Energy Eyes are a way of observing your world. Metaphorically it would be akin to putting on a pair of special glasses and viewing your surrroundings as points of energy and light. Physics has shown us that all things are vibrating to various frequencies; from the hardness of a stone to the softness of a flower. We also know that like frequencies tend to attract. You’ve heard of the notion, ‘misery loves company,’ or ‘birds of a feather flock together.’ These are real examples of vibrational frequencies connecting to one another. Read more …
Right Now
While reading this post, are you worried about your bills, health, relationships? What are you saying to yourself about them? Do you know that problems don’t exist in the moment unless you think about them? That thinking, actually energizes your emotions and those subsequent emotions then energize your thinking?
Your life is indeed an energy spiral, up or down depending on you. But, hey we all need a break! How about Read more …
Reality Unplugged
Why is it that no matter what generation you find yourself, the world is the same old, same old? People are still perplexed with issues of education, crime reduction, too high taxes, and trying to stay ahead of the game? Why is it that after all these years of advanced societies, the same solutions are given, the same problems persist, the same resignation takes place in our minds?
Who says life is a struggle,
and then we die?
Read more …
Please enjoy your free excerpt* below from my Ebook,
“The Mushroom Memos: A Call to Awaken”
“Waking Up”
Who’s
In Charge of
Your
Brain?
Ignorance is the beast.
Awareness is the slayer.
Ignorance comes from the root ‘to ignore.’ To hear things we don’t want to hear and to see things we don’t want to see, may be uncomfortable for us.
However, our discomfort is a consequence of awareness, and awareness brings consciousness.
Waking up is hard to do…
* to purchase and have all of the Memos in one place, please go to the Ebook homepage
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Energy isn’t everything, it’s all there is…
Do you want to enhance your life and career, stop defending your limitations, and understand energy from a fresh perspective? This blog is your slice of a great holographic information pie. Take as much as you like, the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
The Brightme Blog explores ways to enhance your personal energy in the process of living a conscious life. We consider context to be an essential component in the quest for knowledge. While we do not pretend to be all things to all people, we offer possiblities to understand energy in all areas of our lives.
Hello Fellow Traveler,
The world as we know it is changing rapidly. We endeavor to meet with those who are on the verge of shifting their lives, those who realize that things are not as they seem, and those who sense an inner urging to create a new reality for all. See you on the road to consciousness…
To your incredible Brightness of Being,
Alex Dimond and the BrightMe Group
It’s the road, not the destination…
